Tuesday, 3 September 2019

Remembering Grandma Rita: Obituary


Rita M. Wysong  


On Thursday, July 25, 2019 of Gaithersburg, MD. Beloved wife of the late Robert C. Wysong; Loving mother of Linda, Susan, Mary, Bob, John and their spouses. Also survived by 14 grandchildren and their spouses and five great-grandchildren. Friends may call at DeVol Funeral Home, 10 East Deer Park Drive, Gaithersburg, MD on Monday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at St. John Neumann Catholic Church, 9000 Warfield Road, Gaithersburg, MD 20882 on Tuesday, July 30, 2019 at 11 p.m. Interment Gate of Heaven Cemetery.

Monday, 2 September 2019

Remembering Grandma Rita: That's Where Ms. Rita Is

Mauro Gonzalez is now 15.
Here he is at around 8 to 10 years old, at home, with Grandpa and Grandma's
wedding anniversary newspaper clipping posted on the family refrigerator

 

My Favorite Place: 

Visiting Ms. Rita by Mauro Gonzalez

My name is Mauro Gonzalez, & in brief: I recently found out about Rita Wysong's passing & I wanted to write something about her. I found this email through the Wysong family blog, & I'm assuming you're the daughter, Linda? Though let me explain myself.

Ms. Rita & Bob's neighbors in Frenchton Place was this Hispanic family with three sons. I'm the youngest, Mauro. Today, my mother found an old photo of me, & in the background was a newspaper clipping on the fridge, labelled 'Wysong', & I suddenly got curious about what happened to my old neighbors, then found Ms. Rita's obituaries. When I told my parents what I found, they were also sad about her passing, & I had a sudden urge to find someone related to the family who I could send something about our sweet neighbors.

Growing up, I have this constant memory of Ms. Rita buying us chocolates & toys for us kids around Easter & I think Christmas as well. I remember particularly one spring day opening up the door to find a box full of toy cars, which I then played with all morning. This is how I remember those two; as the sweet elderly couple that lived next door.

I don't know the extent of my parents' interactions with them, but my parents did very much love them. Ms. Rita is one of those people to me, where I don't remember ever first meeting her or learning her name; she was always there. Seemingly as long as we lived in 19335 Frenchton Place, Ms. Rita would always be our neighbor.

When they wrote their book of memoirs on their journeys in the foreign service, Ms. Rita gave us a free copy & I was excited to have it. I also remember going into her home with my mom, Bob watching old black-&-white movies on the TV, them asking me what my favorite subjects were in school.

One night I remember looking out of my window, & seeing an ambulance in front of their house, with a crowd of neighbors around. I wanted to go out, but my parents didn't want me to. Soon we found out that Ms. Rita had been taken to the hospital. My mom & I visited her, & talked to her for a while. That night I had a homework assignment, and one of the questions was what was my favorite place to go. I was half-way through writing Hershey Park, before I put 'visiting Ms. Rita' as the answer.

When they eventually moved out to Asbury, Ms. Rita gave my mom a key to the house. I remember walking through it, all empty. I found a blank postcard on the ground & took it with me as a keepsake.

The other day on the way to the dentist, we passed by the retirement home & I thought to myself 'That's where Ms. Rita is'.

I guess it's a symbol of how loved they were by the Gonzalez family to have that newspaper clipping up on the fridge. When I saw the obituaries, it hit me in a way that I hadn't felt in a while. My own grandmother (a fiercely independent woman) recently had a stroke, which rendered her reliant on nurses & helpers in a retirement home. She's 82, lived by herself until now. I also once had to call an ambulance on a friend a month ago; the EMTs said to her that if I didn't call she would've died. I think it would've been the same week of Rita's passing. Just reminds you of how fragile life is, & that you have to enjoy it while it lasts.

Best regards,
Mauro Gonzalez

Remembering Grandma Rita: A Brief History



ABOUT THE LIVES

OF RITA AND BOB WYSONG


Rita and her husband Bob fell in love with each other and married
while they both served in the U.S. military forces following the end
of WWII. Soon after, Bob became a foreign service officer for the
diplomatic consular service. Together they started their new lives,
experiencing different cultures, situations, languages and cuisines of
the many countries where Bob was stationed. Rita, Bob, and their five
children each have vivid, fond memories of places such as Mexico,
Yucatan, Brazil, Saudi Arabia, Lebanon and Sudan.

Rita was a devoted wife and raised her family with unconditional love
and total acceptance. She taught them to love others, and never be
judgmental of anyone. As a result, her children grew up with a strong
and loving bond to each other and parents.

Rita had a love for art, music, cooking the cuisines she had picked
up, greatly influencing her children and grand children. Her main
interest was in writing. While growing up in Mitchell South Dakota, she
was very proud of her role as the school's newspaper contributor and
editor. After retiring from Social Services in Montgomery county,
Rita wrote about all of her life as a State Department wife,
publishing her book "Packing Up and Moving On", which had a 5-star
rating with Amazon.com.

She also had a great sense of humor. One of her favorite annual events
was to play April fools jokes on her children, loved receiving them as
well. She and Bob also enjoyed and laughed at hilarious Thanksgiving
skits playfully written about their quirks, and acted out by family
members.

Bob and Rita lived out their retirement years surrounded by their loving
children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. All celebrations,
holidays and events were centered around the family and especially
patriarch Grandpa Bob and matriarch Grandma Rita. They both will be
sorely missed, but there is comfort knowing they are reunited.

                                              --- Robert Lawrence Wysong

Sunday, 1 September 2019

Remembering Grandma Rita: When They Came To Visit

 

Uncle Bob & Aunt Rita

Our thoughts are with the entire family as you mourn the loss and celebrate the life of aunt Rita. I always enjoyed seeing and visiting uncle Bob and aunt Rita when they came to visit us throughout the years. May you all find comfort in all the beautiful memories you share.
July 31, 2019
- Mark & Sandy Wysong